Three wise and compassionate spiritual directors addressed members of
Spiritual Directors International and the public at this conference gathering.
Canon Peter Ball, Rev. Tilden Edwards and Rev. Margaret Guenther graciously
shared insights and wisdom on the art and practice of presence as a
contemplative spiritual practice. They discussed practical ways to deepen the
capacity for presence in daily living, spiritual practices, spiritual direction
and tikkun olam, acts of repair for the world.
The panelists’ decades of service as spiritual companions, prayer leaders,
teachers and authors grounded the text for their personal stories and teachings.
Their honest, artful and often humorous remarks captivated the audience; even
as their embodiment of the spirit of presence inspired all.
Dr. Vivian Feintech posed the following questions to the panel:
- How do you describe the art and practice of presence?
- Reflecting upon your life, how have you cultivated and deepened the capacity
for presence in engaged daily living, spiritual practices and spiritual
direction?
- How is presence related to the healing dimension of spiritual direction and
to acts of compassion for greater humanity, peace and justice in the world?
Following the panel, the community was invited into silence to notice what
was being awakened within and discern the individual and collective call to be
present.
The following questions are offered for the participants’ further reflection:
- How did the panelists’ sacred stories and teachings inspire you?
- How did they illuminate the practice of presence in your daily life and
invite you to deepen your spiritual practices and capacity to companion others
in spiritual direction?
- How will you bring your presence into the world for acts of healing and
peace?
Canon Ball, Rev. Edwards and Rev. Guenther concluded the program with
offerings of wisdom and blessings. Liz Budd Ellmann, M.Div., Executive Director
of Spiritual Directors International, invited the audience to bless the
presenters in return. The spirit of the evening was reflected in this
reciprocal act of community prayer and gratitude. A DVD of the gathering is
available through the Spiritual Directors International Web site store.
Biographies of the Presenters
Canon Peter Ball
Peter Ball has an active and fulfilling
retirement ministry offering spiritual direction, leading retreats and training
workshops. He regularly leads worship in churches around Ramsbury in Wiltshire,
where he lives. Before retiring he worked in parishes in London. A six year
curacy in the East End at All Saints Poplar was followed by seven years as Vicar
of the Church of the Ascension in Wembley and seventeen years as Rector of St.
Nicholas Shepperton. His final appointment was as Canon Residentiary and
Chancellor of St. Paul’s Cathedral.
Peter’s books reflect two areas of activity.
Journey into Faith, Adult Believing and Faith on the Way draw on his many years
of involvement in the Catechumenate (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults) as
a way to accompany people into faith and the membership of the Church. Journey
into Faith, Anglican Spiritual Direction and Introducing Spiritual Direction
draw on his experience over the years as a spiritual director.
Peter was one of the founders of Spiritual
Directors Europe, now in its tenth year of annual meetings. For thirty years he
was a part time industrial chaplain serving a succession of television
companies, Associated-Rediffusion and London Weekend in Wembley and Thames
Television in Teddington and central London.
Peter, whose wife Angela died in 2004, has three
children and nine grandchildren. Apart from the family he has a number of
interests. Peter is a keen, but not very skilled musician, playing bass clarinet
in a concert band and singing in a local choir. Painting and drawing are
another occasional activity. Peter enjoys travel and leading pilgrimage groups
to various places around Europe. There is always the care of home and garden
and the company of a friendly cat to fill any remaining spare time.
Rev. Tilden Edwards
Tilden Edwards is the Founder and Senior Fellow at Shalem Institute for
Spiritual Formation in Bethesda, Maryland. He was the Executive Director of
Shalem Institute for Spiritual Formation from its independent foundation in 1979
until 2000.
Over the years Tilden has designed and led many ecumenical extension programs
for spiritual leaders, as well as many ecumenical and denominational workshops,
retreats and lectures related to the spiritual life for both ordained and lay
people, across the United States and abroad.
Tilden is the author or editor of seven books: Spiritual Director, Spiritual
Companion; Living in the Presence; Spiritual Friend; Sabbath Time; Living with
Apocalypse (ed.); All God’s Children; and Living Simply Through the Day, as well
as articles in many journals. An eighth book has just been completed,
tentatively titled Embracing the Call to Spiritual Depth: Gifts of Contemplative
Grounding for our Lives, Faith Communities and World.
Tilden holds a B.A. degree in cultural anthropology, magna cum laude, from
Stanford, a M.Div. from Harvard Divinity School, a Ph.D. from the Union Graduate
Institute, a Certificate of Anglican Studies from the Episcopal Theological
School and an honorary Doctor in Divinity from the Virginia Theological
Seminary. He was ordained an Episcopal priest in 1962 in the Washington
National Cathedral.
Prior to Shalem, from 1967-1978 Tilden was the Executive Director of the
Metropolitan Ecumenical Training Center in Washington, D.C., which focused on
societal and congregational concerns of twelve sponsoring religious
denominations. At the same time he was Director of the Urban Training Program
for five seminaries in the Washington area. Prior to that, from 1962-1967, he
was part of the team ministry of the Church of St. Stephen and the Incarnation
in Washington.
Tilden was born in Austin, Texas and grew up in Texas, New York, Oregon and
California. He is married to Mary Avery Lyon and has two grown children, Jeremy
and Jennifer. He lives in Bethesda, Maryland.
Rev. Margaret Guenther
Margaret Guenther is an Episcopal priest and
currently the Associate Rector at St. Columba’s Church in Washington, D.C. She
is Professor Emerita of Ascetical Theology at the General Theological Seminary,
where she served for a number of years as the Director of the Center for
Christian Spirituality.
At heart a teacher, Margaret is an active
retreat leader and lecturer, nationwide and overseas. She is also a writer,
whose books include: Holy Listening: The Art of Spiritual Direction;
Toward Holy Ground: Spiritual Directions for the Second Half of
Life; The Practice of Prayer; My Soul in Silence Waits: Meditations on
Psalm 62; Just Passing Through: Notes from a Sojourner; and most recently, At
Home in World: A Rule of Life for the Rest of Us.
Margaret holds an A.B. and M.A. from the
University of Kansas, a Ph.D. from Radcliffe College (Harvard University) and a
M.Div. from the General Theological Seminary. In addition she completed
post-graduate study at the Universities of Zurich and Hamburg.
Margaret is a wife of more than five decades, a
mother and a grandmother. A great joy in her ministry is
proclamation through the spoken and written word. Her greatest joy,
however, is the ongoing work of spiritual companionship with her fellow seekers.
Dr. Vivian Feintech
Vivian Feintech is a spiritual director, educator and licensed marriage and
family therapist. She currently maintains a private practice in Los Angeles,
California where she companions individuals on their spiritual journey and
facilitates groups to share collective wisdom in community.
Vivian’s passion for children, spirituality and Judaism has been at the core
of her professional life. She has an extensive background teaching, training
and consulting in the fields of education and mental health. Throughout the
years, Vivian has worked in various community settings to design and implement
programs that support children, parents and families. Vivian served as National
Director of Early Childhood and Parenting Programs for the Union of American
Hebrew Congregations (now the Union for Reform Judaism), where she initiated
parenting and family education programs in congregations throughout North
America. Vivian founded the National Family Center, Inc., a non-profit
organization dedicated to creating community partnerships that strengthen
education and social programs across the generations.
Vivian has a D.Min. in Jewish spiritual direction from the Graduate
Theological Foundation. She received her spiritual direction training from Lev
Shomea: Institute for the Training of Spiritual Directors in the Jewish
Tradition. Vivian has a B.A. and M.A. in Human Development from Pacific Oaks
College and holds California state credentials in Early Childhood Education,
Early Childhood Specialist Instruction, Elementary Education and Adult
Education.